Hi Barry,
I noticed on your website that you use NSW for your water changes in the San Diego area. I don't know where you collect your water, but you might really be better off using salt mix so that you don't need to worry about introducing something into the tank accidentally. I lived in that area (Oceanside) for a while and the water isn't really all that clean due to all the ship traffic.
The other thing is that I notice you have a good size Sarc in the tank. Both Sarcs and Sinularia, and possible other large soft corals, can cause a certain amount of water degradation over time, and can quickly degrade the water if they take ill. I had a large Sinularia go downhill in my last tank and take out some of my SPS. I recently removed my large Sarc from my SPS tank as well when it started to look a little under the weather to be on the safe side. If you keep these types of larger soft corals with your SPS, you should do a fair amount of water changes and run carbon to minimize the effect the they have on the water quality and hence on your SPS and keep an eye on their health. I didn't notice, but assume that you are running a skimmer. I think a good skimmer is really necessary for an SPS tank, more so than for soft or LPS corals.
At this point, a large water change can only help and would probably be a good idea. If you have true RTN, it probably won't help, but if something else is going on it might. I am assuming that you haven't had something else get out of whack like the water temp shooting up or salinity getting out of line.
Other than that, you have a great looking setup for SPS and there is no reason you shouldn't be very successful with it. Once going, an SPS tank can be fairly easy to maintain and you already have an investment in the right equipment. I wouldn't give up quite yet!
--- Ken