The reason for me to suggest the use of a pressure regulator is because you told me the pressure output of your RO/DI (independent of GPD rating, BTW) is too high that the top off can't not shut off.... it drips constantly.
Call the maker of the topoff valve and ask them what is the PSI rating of the device, e.g., it is rated for 20 PSI max. etc... I am sure SpectraPure will be able to help you, and maybe able to give you a better pressure regulator, but again, give them a call.
There is no relationship between PSI (pressure) and GPD/GPH (production output in volume). You can have 100 gallon per day at 0.01 PSI, or 1 gallon per day at 2000 PSI. The reason you need to pick a pressure regulator for the output of your RO/DO is not to affect the GPD (it is determine by the amount of evaporation of your tank), but only to decrease the pressure on the output so that the topoff can function properly.
Recommandation:
1, call manufacturer and ask for the topoff spec.
2, see if you want to install a bladder tank so that the pressure regulator does not cause adverse issue with the RO/DI (RO hate back pressure).
or
3, get a better topoff that can work with pressure of 60PSI or above