To be honest, it really doesn't make a difference whether or not you mix the vinegar with pickling lime and then add that slurry to water or you add pickling lime to water and then add vinegar and dose the whole thing by dripping. Even when you make the paste what you are doing is neutralizing the acid with a base to form Ca^+2 (aq), acetate (CH3COO-), water, and hydroxide. What in essence you are doing is adding a weak acid (vinegar - CH3COOH) to a weak base (pickling lime, Ca(OH)2) in aqueous solution and neutralizing the excess acid with base to yield the above mentioned species.
In the end, all you are interested in is getting calcium ions, hydroxide ions, and acetate ions in solution and then dosing this into the tank via drip. Whether you do this with the slurry or adding vinegar to a large tub of RO/DI water and dosing it thru a nilsen reactor should not make a difference. The only thing I could even think of with the latter is that maybe bacteria in the RO/DI/vinegar tub oxidize the acetate prior to hitting the nilsen reactor.
FWIW, I've been using an 18 gal Sterlite tub filled with RO/DI water, excess pickling lime (12 tblsp total in the tub), adding 200 to 300 mL white distilled vinegar, and mixing that entire mixture with a powerhead 2x per day for 15 minutes at a time. I float a piece of styrofoam on the surface to minimize the air/liquid interface to minimize CaCO3 precipitation via CO2 exchange. I have been using this method to drip via dosing pump 4 liters of kalkwasser/acetate per night for 4 months now and have had very good success with it. Parameters are 420 ppm Ca, 10-11 dKH and they're steady. With this method, I only have to make kalkwasser 1x every 2 weeks (which is very nice). If you want to see the specifics of the setup, check in the Equipment section of my website
http://liquidreef.freeservers.com/.
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[ September 06, 2001: Message edited by: LiquidShaneo ]