Just some experience to add to the conversation..
In my humble experience, lighting and filtration methods will make or break anenomes in a tank. My reef has an overflow, which is in my opinion, the best for anenomes. I've encountered problems with filters with intakes and lost an atlantic anenome to powerhead (it was covered, but he managed to wedge himself into the cover.)
Ad far as lighting, my initial reef setup had only 160W of normal flourescents, and over a 75 gallon tank, the Bubble Tip withered and eventually died. But after he was removed, my pair of Cinammon Clowns readily hosted a nice piece of Bubble Coral. However, all of the activity around that coral by the clowns eventually killed it off. (My light did suck too.)
Anyway, I upgraded to Compact Flourescents over X-Mas and restocked the tank. About 3 months ago I picked up another Bubble Tip. After only two months, and after being lovingly hosted by a pair of Maroon Clowns, I now have 2 anenomes.
The clowns do sometimes like playing in my torch/hammer/frogspawn coral, but again, that sometimes stresses the coral and may lead to problems.
And some other observations on the clown-anenome hosting. The Cinnamons took some time to take to the anenome, but when they did, they became very agressive anytime I even tried to enter the tank to maintain. (I didn't even come close to the anenome/coral, and they were all over me.) Their hosting wasn't nearly as helpful as the Maroons I keep now. The Maroons are constantly picking up pieces of brine/shrimp/food and feeding their anenomes.. The Cinnamons "groomed" theirs, but I never observed direct feeding. And they don't bother me when I go in the tank, unless I get too close to their house for comfort..
Hope this helps.