There are more myths about RO/DI than pretty much anything else related to this hobby. Unfortunately, many of us are guilty of this problem whenever we resurrect some old misinfomations that were well-beaten dead horses.
As top off, RO/DI does not need to be "remineralize" / "salting." But if you want to use it for water change, make sure you add aritifical salt to bring the specific gravity to natural sea water level.
Nothing is accomplished if you let RO/DI sit around overnight or aeration. Adding any salt (to it will make the ionic balance of your tank unnatural, especially if you don't do regular water change. Adding kalk to RO/DI (not "salting") is fine since the Ca and alk. will be consumed by hard coral. Other calcium or alk. additive does not need to dose with the RO/DI but some may chose this routine as habit. Giving any rationalization to add buffer (other than kalk) to RO/DI is just silly.
There is nothing intrisice about RO/DI water that makes it unsafe to drink. It is not recommanded because it is a waste of money/energy/material. DI resin commonly used in the hobby is not certified for processing of water for human consumption.
pH of RO/DI is trickly to measure due to the lack of ion in it. CO2 in the air have a lot of influence on it, and researcher usually degas ultrapure water before doing pH measurement. Amateurs and hobbyists do measurement with little knowledge of the procedure and get freak out when they see the pH number. This often led hobbists to make wrong conclusion about the significant of the pH, and when the misinformation is issued with repeatable procedure, this led to wide misunderstanding in this hobby.