Yes, you can definitely live without your Ca reactor. Matter of fact, you should be able to have a softie/polyp tank that you would probably be ok with just the calcium replenishment you get from water changes. If you decide to go with things that demand more calcium (LPS, SPS, clams, etc) then you'll have to do something about it.
B-Ionic is a 2 part calcium/bicarbonate supplement that basically does what your reactor was doing. You would have to dose it (liquid) according to how much is demanded by your tank. Here's a link:
http://www.marinedepot.com/md_viewItem. ... uct=EV1115
You might want to consider taking your rock out and scrubbing it a bit in a bucket of the tank's water to get the algae off and placing it back in along with new saltwater.
Well, what are your parameters? You definitely want to have your ammonia and nitrites at 0 PPM. Your nitrates probably had gotten pretty high, so you want to bring them down to at least close to 0. When changing the water, you gotta make sure that your PH and temp match your tank as to not shock what's still in the tank. Space out the water changes also as to not cause a new cycle.
Your fuge could have caused some of your corals to die also. Caulerpa goes asexual as one of its cycles. You might want to pull a good bit of it out (don't tear it, pull it by fronds) since the nutrients will go out with it. But what is else is going on in the fuge?
Did you ever have sand? Do you have crushed coral? Or anything on the bottom? Do you want sand? If you don't have anything at the bottom it might help you now to be able to syphon yuck out. I like the sand look though, so if you do also, you can slowly add some. But I would wait and do it later. A lot of people these days also go with nothing on the bottom.
Mushrooms, zoas, xenia, leathers, GSP, gorgonians are all on the list of low calcium demand. There are some stonies that don't demand as much as others as well, but I'm not exactly sure which ones would be your best bet. They use up calcium to grow, so if you don't keep up with the calcium, they won't. But you've got plenty of options here! :wink: