Eddie, we've been MORE than patient answering your questions -- AND answering your ANSWERS. I really don't know why you asked in the first place since you behave like all our advice "does not apply" to you. What makes you a business maven, more than those of us who are already IN the business?
I generally don't say anything if I can't say something nice, but a big part of what I do for a living, is HELP people with their reef systems. In that spirit of helpfulness I offered up some of what I've learned as a business owner, (as did everyone else who contributed) and all you did was dismiss and minimize. *I* consider that a flame of sorts, but I kept on trying, hoping you'd understand what I was trying to tell you. Excuse me for being a bit frustrated with you, and you still don't get it. BTW the business world can be a harsh one too, so if you can't take a little heat, do you really want to jump into the kitchen? This is nothing, sir.
Eddie: For your own good, your unborn child's good, and the good of the hobby and the living animals concerned, PLEASE keep it a hobby. Don't try to make it a business. Save your 401K money. I'm not being inflammatory and I'm not trying to be mean. I'm trying to be REALISTIC. The very fact that you're still comparing corals to tomato plants scares the bejeebers out of me, and I can assure you that MY store wouldn't be buying frags from somebody like that. Call it a flame, call it whatever you want to, but your lack of willingness to learn from others, and your lack of maturity will be your biggest obstacles. You are your own worst enemy. How long have you been in this hobby? Give it a few more years, settle in with your new child and enjoy him or her and THEN decide if this hobby will become a business for you. Perhaps in that time, you'll listen and learn a bit more, perhaps you'll find that it's not your passion after all. I have been a hobbyist for 16 years, and I worked for someone else in the business before I took that plunge myself, but for 16 years I thought it would be neat to own my own store "someday".
You're ONLY 27. Trust me, that's not that old. And before you go thinking that I'm some old fart, I'm ONLY 35. I'm ONLY 35 but I've been out on my own in this world longer than most are nowadays, and I've made my own way in this world, and I have the maturity and resourcefullness to keep landing on my feet. I've had a bit of help along the way too, I won't deny that but I have people who trust in me and I don't want to let them down.
I'll get off the soap box now (and I really need to get off this thread....it's making my blood pressure rise), because, Eddie, it seems you've already decided that you're going to do whatever you want to do, however you want to do it, so I really don't know why you keep pounding away at this thread either.
Just don't be coming on here crying the blues when this or that doesn't work out, or you're drowning in the sea of paperwork which is business administration, or when you have a major RTN outbreak, or a flood, or you can't keep up with the water changing and cleaning, or when you can't afford to hire help even though you're putting in 80-90 hours a week and not drawing a paycheck, because that is the REALITY of running a business. Because I will be there to say, "I told you so, and you wouldn't listen." Too many people in this business in particular (and the pet industry as a whole) think the pet business is a walk in the park (don't step in the doggie doo-doo) and all the failed businesses that leave a trail of bad debt and dissatisfied suppliers and customers and landlords, make it difficult for some of the good ones.
OK I'm done (again! *g*)
Jenn