i don't think that things are out of control. i find that it is good to know that you're actually talking to real people and not robots.

i'm probably one of the types of people that annoy you on rc, huh (i'm notorious for using 'lol')? not that i mind, we all have our opinions.
"I need good informative information."
are you saying that the mars forum doesn't provide you with useful, informative answers to all your questions? if you don't get your question answered...try another forum, silly! i wouldn't trust just one small group of people to facilitate a decent answer...heck, some of the reefers there i wouldn't entirely trust in certain situations (rich, for example...probably knows a lot about certain corals and things relevant to larger tanks...but to put a [i believe they were] maroon clown and a tomato clown together in the same tank and expect them to get along?...the idea is laughable! When i read about that in the newsletter i just about wet myself! that, i'm sure, was an isolated incident due to bad judgement[it better have been mr. president!] but there are many reefers whom are new to reefkeeping or just are not entirely knowledgeable that post without refrain.). personally, i would rather have it posted to the entire board and see what the consensus is. know what i'm saying?
anyway, if that's the way you truly feel rasbobre(whom i will now on refer to, lovingly, as robot), i'm sorry. you should speak up over at rc and let the members know that you think things should be a little bit more structured and professional. i hope that didn't come out like a flame!
