Leslie,
From one relative newb to another.
PH
At the very basic level PH is the acidity of the tank, with lower being more acidy. Your tank will naturally tend to get more acidic because of things like fish waste and various acids from the processes in your tank, the same thing happens in the ocean.
Alk
The primary thing that protects your PH from going down and melting all your fish :sgrin: is your alkalinity (otherwise known as the measurement of carbonate and bicarbonate in a reef tank), that why folks call it a buffer. Once your alk goes down, that buffer is gone and PH will start dropping as well (making the water more acidic). Alkalinity is also used up by corals to build skeletons and so gets used up really fast in tank with a lot of colored sticks (sps). Therefore if your PH is low then you probably have a low alk problem likely because all of your greedy sps and coralline are eating it up to build skeletons!
Calcium
Calcium is also used by your corals to build skeletons. Calcium actually will precipitate out if your Alk gets too high, thereby preventing you from actually raising the amount dissolved in the water (so don't go all willy nilly adding a whole bunch of alk [like I did

]. Any calcium added when your Alk is too high will not dissolve, instead you will have a fine dust in the water (much like sugar in a cold drink). Although I like sugar in my iced tea, my corals don't get much use of calcium precipitate, they prefer it dissolved.
Obviously, you still need a constant level of Alk to protect your tank from the acid reflux syndrome and to feed your corals and a constant level of calcium also to build strong muscular corals. The trick is to find the right balance.
Final note (I know you didn't ask but I had to say it!): Calcium absorption also is dependant on magnesium Rarely, a tank will not have enough magnesium and will, again :irked: , be unable to dissolve calcium (a lot like when you have high alk). It doesn't happen as often as people think it does but it can occur.
Hope that was straightforward! I sure had fun writing it.
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