Steven, I had a crash about a month ago after a short tripped my GFCI and I lost circulation for a day. Only ones that made it were my neon goby and peppermint shrimp, along with an indestructible GSP. My skunk cleaner and my cherub angel died. I lost some polyps and zoos, along with a new bubble coral.
Everything is settled down and I found a juvenile pygmy angel (I loved that first one, with a real personality, but this little one is a beauty), and a disappearing wrasse, which is turning out to be not shy at all, even though an angel a quarter the size grabs the food right away. Actually, the goby is the toughest, because if I place a frozen pygmy angel or spirulina cube in, he actually picks it up and tries to make a mad dash with it. Once I'm certain in a few weeks that I maintain stability, especially as I'm feeding a bit more due to the wrasse, I'll start restocking, probably with zoos to start. It was a humbling lesson after taking things really slow with this tank that only bad things happen fast. I was ready to post it for sale right after the slaughter, but I'm having fun with the new guys swimming around and rethinking how to stock. My polyps and zoos were pretty typical, so now I have a chance to redo the colors in the tank. And I want another bubble coral!
The truth is that by reading, lurking the boards, and having taken it slow, I saw past the loss and am still excited about keeping this mini reef. I also know the temptation at getting one of those nano or frag packs once the system is "cycled", as it looks good early on. I'm glad I resisted that route, as I would have probably killed the whole thing off in 3 months. Besides, as you said, it's fun (sometimes) to see what comes out of your LR alone in the first few months.
Henry