Well here's the update -
I've been doing lotsa water changes, it still smells like 30 gallons of rotten eggs tho, just not as pungent. That's a good sign right? Poor little RO filter is running 24/7 and I'm almost out of salt. LOL
I thought the pink tipped anemone was going to make it, but whatever movement it was showing must have been "death throes" and such. It melted down until it was just the oral disc, so I removed it. On the plus side, the firefish goby lives! Problem is, now he never comes out and is possibly has been maimed. Also the hermit crabs continue to live. WOOP. And on a REALLY positive note, I noted an amphipod and two spaghetti worms on the live rock today. yayy!
i also noticed 3 emerald crab corpses on the live rock. that's funny, cuz i only thought i had one