Call your vendor/seller. They should be able to give you instruction to hook everything up. This is water you should expect from them.
If you want to look around, there are a few old threads with diagrams/description to how to hook up the auto-topoff unit. The rest of the RO filter should be all assembled, so you don't have to worry about that.
Basically, there are two outputs from the RO filter. One is called "brine" and the other is called "permeate." Brine is salty waste water. It goes to drain or your lawn for watering garden (well, do the watering when spring comes around). The permeate is the "good stuff." Use your TDS meter on your tap, and in CT, you should see reading around 50-120 ppm. Now test the brine. It should be 80-150ppm. Now test the permeate. It should be 10-20 ppm. So far so good?
If your filter is user friendly, the hose should be color-coded. Blue is the input water, black is brine, while yellow is permeate.... I am not too sure about color (don't have the RO filter right in front of me), so don't freak out if the coloring does not make sense. As long as the TDS reading is fine, then you are ontrack.
Anyway, the actuator unit is called "ASO valve," among other names. This thread has a diagram of the valve near the end:
http://reefs.org/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=21843
Basically it close off the path from the prefilter to the RO pressure housing when the float valve is closed. It may have 4 or 3 ports, depends on the model. Have fun