Originally posted by Trana:
Those are great zoos and look like they are well worth the wait.
They are deffinatly worth the wait. somtimes when I feel preasured to give in I tell myself "you are woirth waiting for."
Three Ways to Keep the Committment to Wait:
(1) Say "no" and keep repeating it. Don't offer reasons or excuses for saying "no".
(2) Take the offensive. State how the person's continued pressuring is making you feel or ask why he/she keeps pressuring you after you have said "no".
(3) Refuse to discuss the matter further. Walk away from the situation.
also somtimes you got to say stuff like
"If you care about me, you'll respect my feelings and not push me into doing something I'm not ready for"
"I don't have to do anything I don't want to. "
"If you really love me, you won't pressure me to do something I don't want to do."
"Well, I'm not everybody, I'm me. Besides, I know that's not true."
"I'm somone, and I'm not doing it."
I also recomend that if you have any questions acbout zoos that you talk to somone you trust like a parent or teacher, but NOT a priest. because they don't no much about inverts.
[ January 22, 2003, 10:10 PM: Message edited by: The Great Rupert ]