How do I use it without a reactor? Do I just throw the bag in my sump?
it's not very effective if not used in a reactor. Reactors are so cheap that its probably more cost efficient to buy a reactor vs. wasting money on phosban by throwing it in a bag in sump.
Could I put the balls in my filter sock, or will the flow turn it into dust?Generally true, unless your sump is set up in such a way that most of the water flows through one small area. If you can stuff the areas between baffles with balls of media, it works just about as well.
Could I put the balls in my filter sock, or will the flow turn it into dust?
I have bought marco rocks long ago when they first came out. I had the issue of yellow water and an acidic smell back then when curing the rocks. Back then, it took 4+ months to finally cure it so it would stop making the water yellow.
I recently bought from them again for some small rocks, it looks pretty much like how OP pics are, and water didn't discolor. I'm guessing their origins are different since they first came out, but the shape and quality is just as good IMO with less curing time. I'm happy with marco rocks both times I bought overall.
Marco used to suggest this on his website. I agree with Warren, get yourself a tub and some water and skimmer and skim the heck out of the rock.