The issue with the paver is that it is (I will assume this due to the mention that the person who suggested this also suggested leaving it outdoors for months before use) made of concrete and that it is leeching lime (most likely.) So if you can, I would remove that from the tank.
If you are dosing iodine, you do need to be testing for it. You can OD a tank with it. Any additive should be tested for.
I agree with whoever mentioned the phosphates..only a Hanna meter/checker will give you an accurate reading (unfortunately). Test kits are notoriously inaccurate for this particular reading.
How often are you changing pout your GFO? What brand are you using and how much? Are you rinsing it before use and is it moving - like at a slow boil- in the reactor? If not used properly or changed often enough, it won't help the tank.
(sorry for all the questions!)
Any algae issues in the tank? a Pic perhaps?
No need to keep fish to a minimum, but you don't want to overstock a tank either or you will have on-going issues chasing bad parameters and lots of algae issues.
Your DkH being at 5 would inhibit coral growth. Any idea how long it was that low?
As far as Vodka dosing- until you get this tank stable, I would not suggest doing this (and you shouldn't need to do it anyway imo)