oh man, thats heartbreaking.
I can understand wanting to start fresh. I lost quite a bit before I figured out what the heck was going on, but since I havent started fresh, I dont want to add or even grow out anything. It's the only way to be confident.
I had not added any pieces in about a year, and started losing pieces despite good params, and finally did a test dip. I was infested and never saw one freaking aefw. (and I looked, hard)
ANyway, sorry for your heartache. I'll be happy to frag anything I have once you get started.
FYI, the dip I did was one fluke tab per 1.25 gallon for 20 minutes. I was watching and all noticable aefw died. I will re-dip next week, to check.