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i disagree...


there didn't seem to be a whole lot of flaming (just a bit, in the beginning), but there has been some gratuitous theological content which might be more appropriate for the sump....

thing is, the thread is/was *here*, so...


anyhow, i found the whole thing interesting, and think that at least several people came away with a better understanding of some other peoples' motivations. at least i did.

in that respect, i feel this topic is/was a success, and i'm glad you started it.

thanks!
 

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This is my kind of entertainment beside the other one's I can't say on this board. Watching you'al debate amuse me. I can see the evolution members of this board have slowly becomes and am very glad I call this BB home. Eventhough we have a couple loose cannons out there, but pretty soon, they either disappears or evolved into our kinds.

Good work people........

FYI, I am NOT a God believer (your God, at least), but I think you all know where I stand on conservation.

(Steve, lighten up man, you are too old for that sh*t......)
 

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SPC":1kwjzgqm said:
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I personally wouldn't fault someone who got bad advice from their LFS, or someone who's really trying to learn.

-I don't believe anyone on this board would, thats why we're here. The problem is that those that frequent the boards and read books are in the vast minority. I just find it irresponsible to continue to blame others (LFS etc...) in this day and age with all of the easily obtainable information we have. All of us started out going to the LFS and ended up with great reef tanks, why, because we took the responsibility of learning all we could about the proper care on our own. Are many of the LFS crap, you bet, but that is still no excuse IMO for not being able to run a successful reef tank.
Steve

mmmm, I actually do agree with you, and I wouldn't blame you for taking my comments a little personally (if you happened to). Mostly the ones that get to me are the petco-type stores that are popping up everywhere that are mass-movement of merchandise type stores. More and more of them are doing salt water fish, and they way they keep their livestock is rediculous. Mostly they are manned by teenagers who have no idea what they're doing, and they are meant to cater to the 90% out there that don't want to have a clue. I think its safe to say that most shop owners/workers wouldn't be on this board if they didn't care about the livestock they worked with though. And if I stop and think about it the percentage of those kinds of stores here compared to the good ones is probably more like 50/50, so maybe shop owners are doing better than us customers. 8O
 

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I do feel that the hobbyist should respect the life of the animals he/she keeps. A pretty fish or bird in a glass box/cage, to match ones decor is insulting to me and I would assume to also be an insult to God (if one believes he created them also).

Creating a little piece of the ocean with some of its diversity is fascinating.

Not to be argumentative, but this statement seems quite hypocritical to me. Is there really any difference between keeping living things in a tank/cage to match a decor and keeping them because they are fascinating? Either way we are keeping them for our pleasure. I don't think anyone on this board can criticize owning animals for our pleasure without being hypocritical, IMO. Is one person's pleasure more moral than another in this example?

I also think that you need to define what it means to "respect the life of the animals he/she keeps." Do you mean "provide a habitat similar to their natural one (including predators?)" or do you mean "provide one better?" Do you mean keeping the livestock alive longer in captivity than they would live in the wild?

If you plan on using the term "stress" in your definition, make sure you define it too since it seems to be quite a subjective measure.

This is good dialog and I am interested in hearing more, not stirring the pot.

Ernie
 

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I've been wanting to post again but I'm not good with words and I didn't want to start any trouble. My words seem to get mixed up because I'm not good in expressing myself in words. But this is a great chance to explain what I meant by people being hipocrits. Esmithiii explains it 1000x better than I can and that's exactly what I meant by hipocrits.
 

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flameangel":18isshgd said:
Steve,,
THANK YOU !!!

philakapd,,
What is needed by the hobbyists/newbie/all of us--
is an understanding/respect for nature, good deal of common sense,
and a strong need/ willingness to listen/read and learn.


14 years of 24/7 hands on with many tanks,
and I still only know half what I want to know !!!
The more one learns, the more one realizes how little we know.

But, the learning is fun !!!!!!
(to me anyway)

Flameangel. You have a great attitude about shopkeeping, and I get the feeling that if I lived in PA, you'd have a customer for life! :D

And I'm beginning to agree with SPC more and more, I think its easier to weed out a lot of people from the hobby these days with the internet, especially bad stores. We need a better way to weed out or educate bad customers too.
 

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esmithiii":1terpt7w said:
I do feel that the hobbyist should respect the Creating a little piece of the ocean with some of its diversity is fascinating.

tank/cage to match a decor and keeping them because they are fascinating? Either way we are keeping them for our pleasure. I don't

Ok, here's a novel for you...
I think "facinating" is a good way to describe it, but I don't think that's all there is to it.

I agree that if it were *just* facinating, then I'd think that most of us would loose interest just like the 90% of the wannabees out there that only keep something because its "cool" or "facinating." But I think the words are really meant to explain something that's hard to express. If you believe in God, then you're probably trying to do what is almost impossible. IE: to try to emulate an environment he created. When kids emulate their fathers, its a way of learning and understanding. I think that's really what we're trying to do. If you don't believe in God, well same concept applies. Its a way of fitting into the world around you. A way of learning and touching a little on the things that exist that we never see. It is "facinating" because we could never create the same thing ourselves. Its also offensive to willfully disreguard something that someone else holds in high esteem. If someone spit on your mother, you'd probably not take it well...etc. Those are the same kinds of things we feel when we keep any family pet. But how we TREAT the pet is really the show of respect isn't it? How much we take care of it to the degree that it should be, in a near perfect (not necessarily a wild) environment. Now, all high and mighty words aside, I think those reasons are the extreem of a person's "facination" with reefkeeping. A lot of us probably just want to learn more about it. But that too, shows respect for the environment around you. To ignore it would be a disreguard of something that someone else holds in esteem, after all. :)

think anyone on this board can criticize owning animals for our pleasure without being hypocritical, IMO. Is one person's pleasure more moral than another in this example?

Its not for our pleasure is it? Its for the conservation and pleasure of the animals we keep blended with our desire to learn about them and learn how to preserve them. And companionship. Corals are much more able to take care of themselves than a dog, but once again if we ignore the world around us (believing it essentially only to be here for our pleasure and sustaining)...{see above}

I also think that you need to define what it means to "respect the life of better?" Do you mean keeping the livestock alive longer in captivity than they would live in the wild?

Do we provide predators for our dogs? Maybe our cats...well, at least in my house when our dogs are around. We show them respect by providing them not just a livable or natural environment, but an IDEAL environment. The same as anything else that crossed our doorstep. That probably does extend their life. That's usually the intent. We'd do the same for a sister, brother, mother. Because we elevate a little tiny bit the price of a living thing. And I'm sensing a theme here. Its more about not just thinking about ourselves and being self-centered.

If you plan on using the term "stress" in your definition, make sure you define it too since it seems to be quite a subjective measure.
Ernie

I didn't use it, but how about if I define stress as being the one thing that I learn more and more about every day! :D Its not that difficult really. Its basically about thinking about the world around us instead of it all having to be about me, ya know. :wink:
 

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I have been following this thread since the original sharkky post. I have only been watching reefs.org for a couple of months or so, but I can already tell what side of the issue most of you will end up being on, by looking at your signature. The topics change a little, but the left or right wing slant does not.

How many of you have heard of or read "The Modern Coral Reef Aquarium" by Fossa & Nilsen? Buy or borrow a copy and open it up to the third page. You will find the following quote is used to introduce this most excellent book. " So, in due course of time, nine out of ten aquaria were abandoned; many of the shops were given up, because there was no longer any custom; and to all appearance the aquarium fever had run its course, never again to appear, like the hundreds of similar epidemics.

But there was one element of strength in the aquarium possessed by none of the others. This was the study of nature in one of her hitherto unstudied phases. Those who merely treated the aquarium as a toy soon became tired of it, and cast it away accordingly, but those who saw its real capacity became more enamoured of it daily."

J. G. Wood, 1868: The Fresh and Salt Water Aquarium.

The more things change the more they remain the same.
 

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dizzy,,
I have that book, read it often and this is so true-

"This was the study of nature in one of her hitherto unstudied phases. Those who merely treated the aquarium as a toy soon became tired of it, and cast it away accordingly, but those who saw its real capacity became more enamoured of it daily."
 
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Its not for our pleasure is it? Its for the conservation and pleasure of the animals we keep blended with our desire to learn about them and learn how to preserve them.

I have a little bit of a hard time with this statement, as our hobby has most likely killed many more animals needlessly than it would be by leaving them in the ocean, although I will admit we are getting better and more educated. I am glad to see us all moving to more aqua-cultured/tank raised species, but for every 2nd/3rd generation acro colony out there, there is another that had to be harvested from a reef to start it, not it mention the others that were failed attempts. If we were truly only concerned with conservation, we wouldn't keep these creatures at all, but rather work more to address issues like the stagehorn bleaching in the Keys.[/quote]
 

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[quote="esmithiii

Not to be argumentative, but this statement seems quite hypocritical to me. Is there really any difference between keeping living things in a tank/cage to match a decor and keeping them because they are fascinating? Either way we are keeping them for our pleasure. I don't think anyone on this board can criticize owning animals for our pleasure without being hypocritical, IMO. Is one person's pleasure more moral than another in this example?





If someone wants a fish or bird to match their decor-get a Picture !!
Lot cheaper and more humane.

If someone wants to create a little piece of the ocean and relate to all the aspects of it-that is another story.
I can not explain things as well as k77 did, but getting "into the nitty gritty" of a reef tank is fascinating. Biology-chemistry-diversity-personalities of the different animals-habits of each-all the unknowns to learn about and so much more. One can never learn ALL that is going on in ones tank !!!

by the way- I am sorry to not do these posts/quotes right.
Haven't figured out the "how" yet. :(
 

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IcantTHINKofONE":3ri98luq said:
I've been wanting to post again but I'm not good with words and I didn't want to start any trouble. My words seem to get mixed up because I'm not good in expressing myself in words. But this is a great chance to explain what I meant by people being hipocrits. Esmithiii explains it 1000x better than I can and that's exactly what I meant by hipocrits.

IcantThinkofONE, I'm impressed that you're sticking around..... :wink:

I hope that you keep on posting on this board.....but PLEASE bring an open mind with you! 8)

There's a lot of people here with a passion for this "hobby/way of life", and you've got to expect passionate answers.
Don't worry about asking seemingly "stupid" questions...most of us already have.... :arrow: me for one.... 8O :roll:
If you are willing to learn, this is a great place to do it!

Mitch
 

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Yea Carp, icantthinkofone has defenately had a bit of a blazing. But at the end of the day i love people with silly questions. Thats why the boards here, so people dont then go on to make silly mistakes. At least he asked, what really boils my pants <knickers/boxers not TROUSERS BTW> is when people post like 9 dumb replys to newbies with less nouse than themselfs and then proceed to brag about ther 25 G tank thats got a tang and two manderins, not to mention a whole bunch of chromides etc. And the crushed coral sand bed Geeeeeese, i wont even go there. But you catch my drift eh.

He may want a shark, but hey who doesn't. At least he's not got a 25 gallon well of death, and he's here asking questions. If we give him good information then chances are he'll walk away a little wiser, and hopefully substitute his sharky urges with a fanged trigger per say :D . I dont see why someone should get burned for suggesting something that they probably grew up to admire on family trips to "Sea World" <4 baby Shamu's and counting> :evil: .
 

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Its not for our pleasure is it? Its for the conservation and pleasure of the animals we keep blended with our desire to learn about them and learn how to preserve them. And companionship

We are still keeping animals for our gratification. Motives for keeping the fish should be irrelevant if we give the same level of care. My reasons for keeping a reef tank (like the reasons of anyone on this board) are entirely selfish. Whether I do it because it looks cool or whether I do it to learn is irrelevant, IMO. I still do it to please me! IMO judging another's motives for keeping a tank is hypocrisy in its purest form. As for conservation, nothing we do could be counted as conservation, IMO.

True conservation means that we would stop taking things from the ocean and stop polluting it as well. Do you know how much coal is burned just to keep my lights running? Do you know how much water I use to run my tank?

I try to create an environment where the inhabitants will live the longest. That is my yardstick. It is a selfish goal, but one that makes sense for many reasons.

I guess my point here is that it is one thing to sternly suggest to aquarists what we think is appropriate for keeping these animals and what is not. IMO that is being helpful to them so that they will get the most out of the hobby and save money, and hopefully save some animals from sure death. I think we all get into shaky ground when we bring ethics into the conversation. Being judgemental does two bad things: First, it make us forget our own culpability/responsibility by making others appear worse than us in our own minds. A feeling of moral superiority clouds our own judgement on our own actions. Second, it discourages the new hobbiest from coming here for advice.

I do not see the point in bringing ethics into the discussion. I do not see the benefit of being judgemental.

Just my $.02. Good conversation here.

Ernie
 
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Mouse":i6odveop said:
At least he's not got a 25 gallon well of death,

I love that description! There was an LFS where I used to live that had a 150 FO system with an ancient UG filter; nothing would live in that tank for more than a week except a beat-up old domino damsel and a zebra moray. The store owner finally tore it down and gave up, but in the meantime everyone called it the tank of death. I like your 'well of death' description much better; it's so much more poetic!



-John
 

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Posted by Chucker:
Folks, let's stick to the topic. God debates belong in The Sump.

As for content, this thread is still teetering on the edge of closure, simply for the manner in which things have been discussed. Keep it clean.

-Some of us actually saw the relvance of the "Biblical" part of this discussion Chucker. In order to determine why there are different opinions and approaches to reef keeping (which is what this thread is about) then we need to bring all of these thoughts to light.

Posted by Sharkky:
I missed the fact that it had stretched onto three pages and had indeed turned into a flame war. It's amazing how the smallest spark can set off a fuse attached to a stick of dynamite.

-Well I'll be darned if I saw any flame war. You bring up a controversial topic and then expect people not to debate it?? I guess I am missing something here, maybe the best thing to do on one these topics would be to just say what others want to hear. :roll: If my questioning (or method used) of someones beliefs did not seem revelent to you then that would be your opinion about my beliefs.

Damnhippo, I was trying to bring out the true reason why some feel the way they do about animals. If I upset some I apologize, I thought this board was for open debate. I'll back out now, have at it.
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I totally agree with Steve. Everybody gets so paranoid about a little criticism and active debate that they slap a "flame" tag on a perfectly worthwhile discussion. Perhaps this thread belonged in the sump. Personally, I don't think so. The topic is VERY relevant to reefkeeping and most of us never visit the sump, because the conversations down there tend to have nothing to do with the hobby, which is appropriate to that forum.

The thing I like best about reefs.org is that it is NOT primarily populated by overly sensitive types who fall apart under the weight of any meaningful comments. I really like that. It means we can actually have some forthright conversations here. I would like to encourage the moderators to keep doing what they've been doing and NOT be too quick to close threads which have broad participation and haven't degenerated into name calling.
 
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SPC":eada2opm said:
-Well I'll be darned if I saw any flame war. You bring up a controversial topic and then expect people not to debate it?? I guess I am missing something here, maybe the best thing to do on one these topics would be to just say what others want to hear. :roll: If my questioning (or method used) of someones beliefs did not seem revelent to you then that would be your opinion about my beliefs.

Steve

I definitely see your point, Steve. I think it was a difference in semantics you saw in my post there. I think I was working on a more broad definition of the term 'flame war'. You're right, though, in that it was nice to see such a heated discussion that didn't degenerate into the stereotypical flame war 'you-suck-no-you-suck' kind of namecalling nonsense.

At first I was a little sorry that I got people so fired up, but then I think I'm more pleased that my original post got people thinking deeply about their morals, belief systems, and goals. As a teacher, that's one of the things that I try to do most in my classroom; unfortunately it's also one of the most difficult to do, especially in this day and age of fifteen second attention spans. It's good to know that there are still thinking people out there! :wink:


-John
 

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