I find that most of the time paypal is used is when you come to an agreement with a seller and want the seller to do you the
favor and hold the item for you until you can arrive at their location to pick it up yourself, so as to avoid the item being sold to someone else. So in other words the seller is doing the person a favor of receiving what would otherwise be a cash payment via paypal so as to be assured that the item is payed for and the purchaser is not a flake. I see no reason why the seller under these circumstances should take a 3% loss and in fact I never have a problem paying them that 3% to hold the item. Most of the time when I pay a seller via paypal I send them the payment as money owed anyway because I see no reason why our vendors should have to pay paypal the additonal 3%, on top of all their other operating costs. In my opinion, that would just raise our hobby prices an additional 3%. MOST of our vendors are great and aren't necessarily making a killing on the stuff they are selling us, so why jerk them another 3%?
Also, just food for thought, if a seller incorporates 3% into their prices so as to not charge that paypal fee, wouldn't everyone (even the people paying cash upon pickup) get screwed by paying that additional 3%? Why would we want to drive prices up that way? I think most sellers don't incorporate that fee because they expect cash upon pickup and because they want to keep their prices as competitive as they can. Makes sense to me..
Raul, although I understand your situation, there is a flip side to that coin. Look at it from the seller's perspective. He's trying to come to an agreement with you and trying to accomodate you by even delivering the goods. I assume the only reason he is asking for half as downpayment is because he wants to make sure you don't flake (I know you wouldn't) like many people on here. So in essence he just wants to receive the entire price he is asking for for the items he is selling. I'm sure he isn't calculating the additioonal 3% to the money you are paying him cash because he is receiving that money in full. But the reality is if you had picked up the goods you would have paid him the entire amount in cash and he wouldn't have to pay that 3% and I'm sure he feels as strong as you do about not having to be held up for that 3% fee. It sounds like the seller is just trying to be made whole in his asking price.
Now if that 3% is $.30 or if that 3% is $30 may make a difference. What I would suggest is, if you feel so strongly about the 3% and you want to come to an agreement, agree to pay the 3% on the half you send via paypal. Upon delivery and inspection pay him the entire amount owed for the goods in cash and have him refund you your paypal payment. This way the seller is assured he won't get stiffed and you don't end up paying the 3% on half the money. Just my .02 cents (which by the way is 3% of .60 cents).